The Prayer Exchange

Taking steps

I don’t think that this will be long, but I’m probably wrong :)

I just wanted to give a little update of where things are as of today. Also, for many of you that are getting this for the first time, you can find our last post linked at the bottom of this one. This is our private direct email list for ministry/personal things that we can’t or choose not to share publicly. I’d please ask that you don’t share these posts publicly, but please feel free to forward them along to friends or loved ones that either want to pray, or that would receive encouragement in some way. For God’s Glory!

I’m not going to attempt to follow a timeline here; this week has been a blur for sure. I’m also going to use layman’s terms for things I don’t fully understand yet, so there’s that…

I can tell you that Nori, Kristi, and Inah made it safely to Charlotte a few days ago. They were blessed by our church and friends to have immediate housing and transportation ready. Thank you! They immediately got Nori to the triage location for this sort of thing. She was there for a couple of rocky days before being assigned to a bed at an in-patient program yesterday. We are super thankful to the Lord that she is in Charlotte for this. Beds are limited in NC and she really could have even been placed out of state. God is good! At the triage location, Kristi was only able to visit Nori twice a day for 15 minutes each. Now she’s able to see her for 2 hours at the end of each day! We expect this in-patient segment to go for about a week, and then we will have to see what’s next.

God never promises to show us the big picture of what He is doing, but we continue to see His hand everywhere in this, and we trust that He can give a crown of beauty for ashes (Isaiah 61:3). When Kristi described the triage room that Nori was in, my heart sank and I prayed for God’s care over my girl. Then she told me how a younger girl arrived at the triage center, scared, and Nori came along side her and taught her some games and befriended her so that she didn’t feel so alone. Again, this morning Kristi told me a story of another girl at the new place that she’s at that Nori came along side and was trying to care for. The doctors and nurses told Nori that she didn’t have to do that, that’s their job, but Nori continued to try and make her feel welcome and not scared. Lord I don’t know what you are doing, but I love you, I trust you, and I thank you. November 4th is Nori’s 17th birthday and I praise God with all my being for His grace over her!

Please pray for Kristi as she tries to figure out what housing looks like next both for her and Nori, and for when the rest of us arrive in December. There’s a lot to weigh out. Also, please pray that the girls can get some sleep. I know that Kristi could really use a solid normal night of rest!

Keep praying! I never anticipated all of the emails and texts that I have received from people saying "Me too". There are so many parents that are walking through pieces of this and/or have before with kids that are really hurting. My heart breaks. What's my encouragement in that? I guess that I've been encouraged to spread a much wider net with my prayers, and to be more intentional about doing it. And don’t be afraid to share about the Hope that you have :) I don’t know what He is doing, but I trust that He is good.

Out of the depths

I've been working out a post in my head for well over a month now. We've seen a lot of wild changes here lately, but now it all seems not as critical as it did 2 days ago. It's astounding how a single event can alter so many things, even your view of the Almighty.

We've been serving in Papua New Guinea for nearly a decade now. If you know our story (https://www.liveforgodandlive.com/story) then you know that Nori was God's catalyst in getting us here. She was spunky and tenacious then and she is spunky and tenacious now. We fiercely love her.

The hard part of that is that there is an enemy roaming about and he knows what we care about. I don't know if I heard this in my tenure here or if I read it in a missionary biography, but Satan will often leave you alone and go after your kids to try and thwart God's kingdom progressing. We have seen that play out time and time again in our years of service. The truth is that even a person that can endure a lot, can't endure watching their loved ones suffer—especially when they are young and vulnerable. The spiritual warfare over our children is a real one; I can't stress that enough. Don't ever stop praying for your kids, grandkids, nieces and nephews... pray for their protection, discernment, salvation, submission to Christ, growth in the Spirit, Joy!...

Kristi and I laid down for bed Saturday night and she prompted me to pray for our kids. I asked for God's protection over each one of them and then closed my eyes to go to sleep. Moments later, Nori came to us for help. She had purposefully overdosed on some pills but now wanted help. We had just hugged all the kids goodnight like normal; there were no confrontations predicating the act like one might expect, but in a moment she listened to the wrong voice and decided that she didn't want to feel anymore. In the darkest of times, God did not leave her alone; He was present and moving. He prompted us to call out to Him, He heard our prayer, He whispered gently in her ear and He acted. She came to us for help when all reason said that she shouldn't have. We rushed Nori to the clinic here and the incredible doctors and nurses worked tirelessly through the night to combat what was done. The 12 hours that followed were a battleground of corporate prayer as the Body of Christ jumped into action and waited to see what God would do. There were multiple times during the night that we heard "She's in danger of heart failure" and we cried out to the Lord and waited. We praise His merciful hand for answering "That's enough! No further!" God is gracious! The enemy wanted to destroy Nori's life using her own hands. God said no! We praise His holy name!

I can say with certainty that the darkest moment of my life now was that night. In my desperation, I cried out to the Lord and played worship songs to comfort my heart and remind me of the Lord's character in times just like this. Banner and I had just picked out an album together the day before that was on my phone. When I got to the song "I Will Wait for You" (Hymns Live by Shane & Shane) I listened to it over and over and wept. Through the night it was a tremendous comfort to me. Later Sunday afternoon it was on my mind to go back and look at the song title because I remembered that it was based on a Psalm and I wanted to read it. I saw that the song was written from Psalm 130 so I went to the Bible app on my phone to read it. I was surprised when Psalm 130 popped right up without me having to search for it. By God's sovereign providence, that was the Psalm that I read Saturday morning as part of my Scripture reading plan! That was the word He gave me beforehand. He was already preparing us and holding us. I can't praise Him enough!!!

Nori flew out first thing Monday morning to the US with Kristi and our dear friend Inah to get the care she needs right now. Banner, Millie and I plan on joining them in December. Nori's health and heart are our priority, but we plan on coming back to PNG soon when God makes a way. Thank you for your prayers for Nori and for our family! Thanks to all of you that have offered your notes, encouragement, and support in all kinds of ways already—you are God’s hands and feet! Please pray for Kristi as she navigates all these things without me next to her, and please continue to lift Nori up to the Lord—that He will save her journey, now that He’s saved her life. We'll update more when we can :)

Also, please reach out and let us know how we can be praying for your kids. I really mean that, more now than ever!

Psalm 130 (NLT)

1 From the depths of despair, O Lord,
    I call for your help.
2 Hear my cry, O Lord.
    Pay attention to my prayer.

3 Lord, if you kept a record of our sins,
    who, O Lord, could ever survive?
4 But you offer forgiveness,
    that we might learn to fear you.

5 I am counting on the Lord;
    yes, I am counting on him.
    I have put my hope in his word.
6 I long for the Lord
    more than sentries long for the dawn,
    yes, more than sentries long for the dawn.

7 O Israel, hope in the Lord;
    for with the Lord there is unfailing love.
    His redemption overflows.
8 He himself will redeem Israel
    from every kind of sin.

July 2021

Well, it took a little bit of coaxing (Thanks rising 5th graders at Trinity Evangelical Church!), but here are the kids! Thanks everyone for your continued prayers and support. We also are having ever changing restrictions and it has been much harder for missionaries to come and go for over a year now, but we are here to testify that God is still working. He is indeed on His throne!

Enjoy!

March 2021

As a bonus, here are a few pics from the book parade at the primary campus and the rain devastation lately.

God is Good! John & Kristi

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Can you find astronaut Millie?

Can you find astronaut Millie?

This is essentially the watering hole that all of our mission center draws our water from besides what we catch off our roofs. This landslide broke the pipe :(

This is essentially the watering hole that all of our mission center draws our water from besides what we catch off our roofs. This landslide broke the pipe :(

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To give you an idea, this is the kind of rain that we are talking about. This is usually a road, not a river.

To give you an idea, this is the kind of rain that we are talking about. This is usually a road, not a river.

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Starting 2021!

We are trying something new—we hope that you enjoy seeing our faces! If you have trouble seeing the video or if you liked the format, or didn’t, or want to send us some questions to answer, please let us know :) Maybe we can coerce the children to join us in the future.

Another excuse to share a beautiful photo… One of the hats I’m currently wearing is that of Fire Chief. It has been unseasonably dry recently which means that we are seeing a rise in bush fires. My coworker, Andrew, got this aerial photo from one of…

Another excuse to share a beautiful photo… One of the hats I’m currently wearing is that of Fire Chief. It has been unseasonably dry recently which means that we are seeing a rise in bush fires. My coworker, Andrew, got this aerial photo from one of the fires we had to attend to this week (black section in the centre). Never a dull moment here! Please pray for rain.